07/14/2024

A Sabbatical Day In The Life

documenting my ADHD

a friend texted me the following last week:

 

i have zero structure. i realized i don’t even know what i do, and i do worry sometimes if i’m getting enough done. however, much of my work right now is to follow my curiosity and continue contributing to the thesis for what i’m building.

below is my to-done list from thursday, 7/11/24. i try not to keep a rigid ‘to-do’ list for the day anymore as it tends to stress me out. these days i will set a theme for the week or the day, and try to have enough self-trust in my subconscious that if i continue to do what i want, i will be okay. i do have a mega-list in my notebook that i add to when a to-do, an intention, or an idea that i cannot do right in that moment comes up.

09:00 wake up

09:23 morning pages 

10:14 facetimed my mom 

10:50 finished reading an essay on anthony bourdain

11:00 finished reading properties of state and path functions (thermodynamics) (felt stupid)

11:03 tweeted about path functions in relation to “living a markovian life”

11:04 thought about buying an SSIR subscription

11:10 organized my tabs

11:15 drank water, thought about making breakfast

11:16 searched the difference between social computing and computational social science

11:18 read about network analysis and knowledge organization 

11:21 started to clean email / get to inbox 0

11:24 ate a rice cake

11:30 twitter break + respond to a friend Amber’s text 

11:39 finished reading my friend Alyson’s new essay
added anemone by the brian johnstone massacre to my july playlist 

11:41 texted Alyson that I loved her essay 

11:42 BACK TO EMAILS! FOCUS! 

12:08 got through some emails, some cornell bio elab stuff
applied for a reading group

12:18 still getting through emails 
started reading sherry ning’s essay on how to write 
getting hungry

12:32 can’t focus. need to eat.

12:51 made besan puda (chickpea flour crepe) with cilantro, onion, peppers, green chili
eat and watched with avatar the last airbender 

13:01 finished eating. washed dishes. decided to have a mini ice cream cone.

13:20 read jesse eisenberg’s entire discography and how he trolled woody allen as a teenager
went back to reading sherry ning’s essay from my email

13:28 finished sherry’s essay. 
reflected on if my creation depends on some kind of self-exploitation

13:46 read an article on karl friston and yann lecun debating at davos, 
rabbitholed back into cognitive computing 

14:26 read about curiosity-drive theory and tweeted about it #learninpublic

14:30 read about active inference and spatial computing 

14:39 read more on spatial web protocol

15:00 twitter break + finished friston vs. lecun piece 

15:06 responded to more emails

15:35 followed up with someone 

15:39 read some more from my reading list 

15:41 ate grapes

16:04 finished the intention for the day: all emails + 8 essays on reading list, felt accomplished 

16:13 nap time 

16:50 woke from nap, called nb, air fried two latkes, watched avatar the last airbender 

15:13 called nb again to talk about tonight’s plan

15:35 watched matty matheson cooking videos on youtube

18:28 went on a walk 

19:28 got home

19:30 had a call with my research lead on the paper we’re writing 

20:16 finished meeting 

20:20 shower

20:40 skincare + tidy apartment 

21:00 started on dinner: stir fry + yogurt 

21:16 ate dinner with hannah berner’s netflix comedy special

22:00 nb arrived from work, he ate dinner

22:34 in bed

22:48 couldn’t sleep, read joan didion and watched avatar the last airbender

00:35 fell asleep

 

some days i’ll have one big project that takes up a major chunk of the day, but most days look more like this. i get a majority of my focused work done in the early mornings or late at nights. i also try to have most of my meetings on tuesdays and wednesdays.

something i want to become better at is less context switching and less reacting to every thought that comes up.